Hurtful Words Damage Relationship
Can Spouse Trust Again? Question: I recently came across your reply about Marriage: Waiting for a Miracle in my Marriage. This situations parallels mine in very many ways. How do you get your husband or…
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What is a Cult?
The Difference between Cults and Christianity Definitions of Cults: Alan Gomes writes: “A cult of Christianity is a group of people, which claiming to be Christian, embraces a particular doctrine system taught by an individual…
Alone in My Marriage
What to Do About Marriage Question: Hello, I have no idea if you can even help me. I’m not even sure where to begin. I have been with my husband for just about 23 years…
How Big is Your Mountain?
God Moves Mountains How Big is Yours? Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to…
Eating Disorders: Anorexia, Bulimia, Overeating
FACTS ABOUT EATING DISORDERS “I am always on a diet & never satisfied with my weight.” Dear Counselor: I have been troubled by low self-esteem and an eating disorder. I always seem to be on…
What to do after an Affair?
How should I handle an affair? Question: Hi, I have a very important meeting in a few days at my Pastor’s office. I have been married for 15 years. On our 7th year of marriage, my…
Abuse Hotlines
Illinois Department on Aging (over 60 years old): 1-800-252-8966 Disabled (under 60 years old): 1-800-3682463 Child Abuse hotlines: Child Help USA : 1-800-422-4453. Or 1-800-252-2873: for Illinois residents but they will provide other state numbers.
Telling Your Parents About Your Abortion
Q: Should a teen tell her parents about the abortion she had? Should she keep it a secret? © copyright 2016 by Lynette J. Hoy, NCC, LCPC. Answer: Dear Friend, It sounds like you are…
Ventilation of anger!
Many people think that letting anger out or catharsis of anger reduces anger escalation. Some parents and groups teach children to rip up magazines and throw things when they get angry. What really happens? Research…
Emotional Eating
How do you deal with feelings of anger, frustration, fear, stress, loneliness, conflict, depression or disappointment? Do you find comfort in food? Are you constantly on a diet but, never losing weight? When you feel…