Articles by LynetteHoy

Jealousy

Jealous of Ex-wife Question: I am so jealous of my husband’s ex-wife. When they met, she was 27, he was 46. She was sexy in every way. I on the other hand have endured an…


Sexual Abuse Recovery

Dealing with rape and past sexual abuse Question: I am 28 yrs. old and have been sexually abused by my oldest brother, mentally abused by other relatives. I was sexually abused by two family friends,…


Coping with Low Self-Esteem

Self-esteem Scarred for Life Question: Hi Lynette: I’m writing because I have been dealing with tough issues for a long time. When I was growing up at a Chinese Christian church in junior high school,…


Self-harm

How to Stop Hurting Myself? Question: Dear Counselor, Yesterday I have tortured my self again and I am afraid to relive the details. No offense to you of course but I must tell you my…


Giver – Taker Inventory

Givers versus Takers Giver-Taker Inventory: Check the statements which are true in your significant relationship(SR). Are you: The one who usually calls? ___ The person who feels disrespected? ___ The person cleaning up after other…


Dealing with PMS

Coping with PMS Question: I have struggled with horrible PMS for years, only to have it lifted at menses. I feel guilty about not being able to keep my raging hormones out of my personal…


Building Your Self-Esteem

Understanding and Dealing with Low Self-esteem Most people typically suffer from low self-esteem. They seek to increase self-worth through the approval of others or from achieving goals. Raising children, building a career and/or fulfilling the…


Preparing for Marriage

Premarital Planning Question: I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost 10 months now. We are thinking about getting married. What issues are important to discuss before marriage? I know we all tend to have secrets…



Discover Your Identity

Question From A Reader: Hello! My name is Abigail and I am a teen. I was saved about 4 months ago. I’ve been attending a Baptist church ever since my friend invited me a little…